OP, I'll echo what the others have advised and, additionally, suggest that you focus on social events, if wishing to mingle, during the Christmas season, presuming that's relevant in your culture/country, and take a break from the date seeking milieu. Sure, if you meet someone you like at a social event, act on that but don't spend time online setting up dates with strangers right now. Generally, most people are focused on family and friends this time of year. Great opportunity to grow social connections and meet new people out in the world if that's what you want.
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